"YOU COULD HEAR A PIN DROP DURING ASHLEY'S PRESENTATION! FROM THE MOMENT SHE GOT ON THE MIC, EVERY SINGLE STUDENT JUST LISTENED. THEY WERE INVESTED AND ENGAGED THE ENTIRE TIME."

- Director of Student Activities, Carondelet High School, CA

Impact Your Students, Empower Your Staff

Real-Life Inspiration, Life-Changing Advice

Students need support and encouragement... and so do the adults who serve them. Ashley Bendiksen is an acclaimed youth motivational speaker, award-winning activist, and expert in teen dating violence and sexual assault prevention, student mental health, and resilience. As a Top Youth Speaker®, she's one of the best in the nation! Combining heartfelt storytelling, education, and practical advice, Ashley's message prevents students from becoming statistics and is life-changing for those who hear her speak. (Warning: Expect tears, smiles, and hugs!)

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  • High Schools and Middle Schools
  • Colleges/Universities
  • Fraternities and Sororities
  • Youth Leadership Conferences
  • Education Conferences
  • Staff Professional Development Trainings
  • Awareness Months and Fundraising Events

Ashley's Signature Talks

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MIDDLE & HIGH SCHOOLS | TEEN DATING VIOLENCE PREVENTION

Healthy Relationships = Thriving Students: Preventing Dating Violence and Promoting Self-Advocacy

At 14, Ashley was excited about her first dating relationship. Unfortunately, it became abusive, starting a cycle of unhealthy relationships that would negatively impact Ashley during her entire adolescence – personally, socially, emotionally, and academically. Sadly, Ashley’s story is not unique. In the U.S., 1 in 3 teens will experience dating violence - an issue that surpasses bullying and disproportionately impacts youth. Additionally, 1 in 5 students know someone being abused. This is most commonly, emotional, verbal, and psychological - like jealousy, monitoring, and control. These behaviors impact student mental health, safety, social-emotional well-being, and academic achievement. As a survivor turned expert teen dating violence speaker, Ashley teaches students what a healthy relationship looks like, what to watch out for, and what to do when abuse occurs.

  • Education on dating abuse and top red flags to spot
  • Qualities of a healthy relationship vs. costs of a toxic one
  • How to set boundaries and maintain personal priorities
  • Seeking help and tips to help a friend/peer
  • *Variations: Sexual assault, consent, bystander intervention skills

COLLEGES & UNIVERSITIES | DOMESTIC/SEXUAL VIOLENCE PREVENTION

Why Don’t I Feel Like Myself? Unpacking Relationships, Abuse, and Assault on College Campuses

As a college student, Ashley faced devastating harm - domestic violence and sexual assault. But perhaps the hardest part was losing herself in the process. This is something students on every college campus can relate to. Whether in their own relationships or those of their peers, toxic and harmful behaviors are all too common. In fact, college-aged students face the highest rates of relationship abuse and violence. Even more troubling, these behaviors are becoming normalized, directly damaging a person's self-esteem, mental health, focus, and goals. Addressing this is not only critical for safety but central to student success. 

Ashley’s story inspires, empowers, and leaves a lasting impression – making her a must-have speaker for any campus committed to fostering safe and healthy relationships. This engaging and relatable conversation helps students to recognize red flags, adopt new ways of thinking, and equip them with skills to take action in their lives, on campus, and in their communities.

Customizable key takeaways tailored to your focus; event title to be co-decided:

  • Understanding abuse, gender-, and power-based violence on campuses
  • Recognizing red flags, toxic love, and emotionally abusive relationships
  • Building healthy relationships and detoxing from toxic ones
  • Reclaiming your life, authentic identity, and self-worth
  • Bystander intervention skills + how to support a friend
  • Consent, Title IX, and sexual violence prevention

ALL STUDENTS | LEADERSHIP AND RESILIENCE KEYNOTE

Rise and Thrive: Master Resilience, Protect Your Mental Health, and Achieve Your Greatest Success

As a former at-risk teen turned youth specialist, Ashley deeply relates to teenage life and knows what young people need to hear. Adolescence isn’t easy. From low self-esteem to anxiety, peer pressure, relationships, dating, and social-emotional challenges, many young people feel alone, overwhelmed, powerless, and even hopeless. This often leads to negative coping habits, endless comparison, and a failure to know and witness one’s true potential. 

To combat this, Ashley delivers the transformative talk every young person needs. Through relatable storytelling and research-backed strategies, she equips teens with the three essential life skills necessary for resilience and success. Ashley empowers her audience to realize that they hold the power to shape their own futures, no matter their circumstances.

LEARNING OUTCOMES:

  • Tools to cultivate self-awareness, self-advocacy, and empowerment
  • Using reframing and productive thinking to build resilience and solve conflict
  • Cognitive behavioral therapy-based tools to manage emotions and make healthy choices
  • Central role of positive relationships to support your mental, academic, and life goals
  • The power of purpose and a personal mission as fuel for focus

EDUCATORS, STAFF, & YOUTH SERVICE PROVIDERS | PREVENTION AND INTERVENTION FOR ABUSED AND AT-RISK YOUTH

Be a Lifeline: The Power of Awareness to Change a Student's Path

The majority of youth-serving adults have never been trained on one of the largest issues impacting the youth they serve: abuse. In every community and every classroom, students and children silently experience harm. In the U.S., 1 in 3 teens experience abuse by a dating partner. Recent data indicates alarming increases in sexual violence and online exploitation among middle and high school teens. Further, 1 in 7 children experience abuse or neglect by someone they know, trust, or are in the care of. Despite this high prevalence, these issues are often overlooked by caring adults. Warning signs are often subtle or misunderstood. This lack of intervention leaves youth at risk for further harm, as well as serious short and long term consequences. For many, it also becomes an adverse childhood experience that negatively impacts both their present and future life. Adults play a crucial role in recognizing harm. With improved awareness and simple skills, early detection and intervention can save and change the trajectory of a student's life.

  • Education and awareness of how youth and students experience abuse
  • Impact of abuse/neglect on academic, social emotional, and mental health
  • Crucial role adults play in early detection and intervention
  • Red flags to look for, plus simple intervention and referral strategies
  • Proactive ways to foster relationships and promote prevention

Additional Services

Add-On and Standalone Services to Meet Your Needs

Add-On Workshops

  • Students: Awareness to Action - Bystander Intervention Skills
  • Parents: Workshop on Safe Teen Dating
  • Teachers: Fostering Relationships in the Classroom
  • Clinical Staff: Trauma-Informed Support

Custom Speeches

Frequent requests include:

  • Student Leadership Events
  • Women’s Empowerment
  • Women’s History Month
  • Allyship and Social Justice
  • Orientation/Welcome Weeks

Consulting

  • Public Relations and Communications Strategy
  • Campus-Wide Awareness and Prevention Campaigns
  • Policy and Program Development, incl. Victim Advocacy
  • Climate Surveys and Change Implementation Plans

What People Are Saying...

"I have never heard a speaker's name mentioned so many times! ​We wanted our keynote speaker to start off the conference weekend strong and you exceeded all of our expectations! Over the weekend, I heard your name mentioned over and over again. You really helped break down a lot of walls, so thank you!"

 

Nicole Kamal, MassSTAR Youth Leadership Conference

"I have seen why Ashley is a leading speaker for youth. She delivers a powerful message that engages students and compels them to take action afterwards. I would recommend her to anyone!"

Jeffrey Pelletier, President, Junior Achievement

"Hearing your story tonight changed my life. ​I'm so confident now. I will never go back. Thank you."

 

Brittany H., High School Student

"Today, for the first time in my entire life I was able to say out loud that I was assaulted."

 

Jessica V., College Student

"You set off a spark here throughout the entire school. All week people have been talking about your story, your bravery and strength."

Tim R., High School Student

"After that day, I kept getting stronger, having your words in my head. I survived... because of your words."​​​

 

Alexandra L., College Student

"You gave me the courage
to finally leave."

 

Hayley M., High School Student

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Ashley is represented by TOP YOUTH SPEAKERS - the premier agency for youth motivational speakers in North America. Booking Ashley means you get...

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Trusted by Thousands of Schools
High Quality Preparation Support
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Have Questions?

Check out these commonly asked questions or send Ashley's team a message.

Ashley offers a few different investment options, depending on how much impact you'd like to bring to your school or event. When you reach out, Ashley's team will provide these options along with recommendations.

If you lack the funds or budget to pay for a speaker, you're not out of luck. Schools find money from multiple sources. You may easily have funds available to you that you aren't even aware of.

Download Ashley's Free Guide: 10 Ways to Find Money to Pay for a School Speaker for easy, proven, and tested strategies to bring in a speaker.

Presentation length is based on whether Ashley is offering an assembly, workshop, or staff training. Typically, a student presentation ranges from 45-60 minutes. Workshops and staff in-service trainings range range from 60-120 minutes. However, Ashley is able to customize every presentation to your time period.

Ashley has extensive experience offering virtual presentations. Expect the same top notch content, just delivered in a different format. Unlike some speakers, Ashley is committed to providing a professional, high-quality virtual experience. You will NOT get a talking head nor will Ashley wear headphones! Ashley guarantees clear and crisp audio, exceptional video quality, and ample lighting. She also uses fun, high quality software for a seamless presentation experience (no sloppy screen sharing or pauses). Ashley also will schedule a tech run-through for every event!

As a highly experienced teen dating violence speaker and youth motivational speaker, Ashley guarantees age-appropriate presentations for every audience. She has experience speaking to youth in K-12 and at the college level. This is often a mere matter of changing language, using different stories to demonstrate lessons, or presenting issues from a different angle or perspective, depending on the age group.

Ashley promises to include every student in her message. To do this, she incorporates themes of leadership, facing challenges, inspiration, motivation, and service into every presentation - regardless of the details of a student's life. These themes exist in Ashley's personal story as well as her actionable takeaways for audiences. With expertise presenting on dating violence, mental health, achievement, bystander intervention, allyship, and leadership development, she guarantees that no youth feel left out.

Organizers consistently compliment Ashley's ability to address difficult topics in a way that is light yet powerful. With over a decade and a half of experience as a teen dating violence speaker and youth speaker, Ashley introduces heavy issues in a way that is relatable, entertaining, and empowering. She does not go into extreme detail and does not provide any "prescriptive" ideas while sharing her personal story. Still, prior to Ashley's visit, she will provide ideas on ensuring staff is prepared to respond to any student disclosures.

Ashley is represented by Top Youth Speakers®. Both she and her team will support you through the planning process. You will receive PR materials to help you prepare, including a stage introduction, headshots, bio, promotional graphics, and other helpful preparation materials. Additionally, you will receive a simple list outlining Ashley's technical and presentation needs. For convenience, you can always find these items here.

Ashley loves to highlight the schools she is visiting. Prior to her arrival, Ashley will make every effort to announce your school/event on both her social media platforms and on her email newsletter.

During Ashley's visit, Ashley is available for any special interviews for your own web platforms or school newsletters. Following the event, Ashley will create follow-up event posts on both her social media accounts and blog.

If this is a conference or major event, Ashley will additionally live stream on her social media platforms. She will also incorporate strategies to get audience members to tag any of your unique event hashtags or accounts.

Ashley loves offering additional free resources for your audience. She will provide them with a link to a library of online resources to reinforce her presentation. Additionally, whenever available and appropriate, Ashley will bring free "swag" like buttons, pins, and stickers. Based on availability and your investment, Ashley will also bring t-shirts and other merchandise, both free and for purchase.

"IT WAS A SCHOOL SPEAKER WHO HELPED ME REALIZE WHAT I WAS GOING THROUGH. NOW, I AM THAT SPEAKER.... LET ME CHANGE THE LIVES OF THOSE YOU SERVE, THE WAY A GUEST SPEAKER ONCE CHANGED MINE."

xx Ashley

Youth Motivational Speaker | Teen Dating Violence Speaker

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BRANDON SPINAZZOLA
Speaking Events Coordinator
brandon@topyouthspeakers.com
(800) 799-1460 ext. 1

Teen Dating Violence Speaker and Youth Motivational Speaker Ashley Bendiksen